We get failure once in our life. No one can
say that I have always been successful. If anyone claims so, either he is
beyond the truth or taking success in a narrow sense. Everyone knows that
success and failure are the opposite faces of the coin.
All men experience both, but only some are able to survive in the failure, and the rest are not liable to survive even in
success because they never encountered the failure properly so the writers and
the motivators amplify the failure in the broader sense because it strengthens
not only the relations, desires, and sustainability of life, but also broadens
the vision.
Vision is a bigger concept. It includes the
idea of one’s imagination that does not exist yet. In the Oxford dictionary, it
is defined as original and showing the ability to think about or plan the
future with great imagination and intelligence. It offers a refined plan,
applied strategy, and flexible and stony way forward. Failure is not as
disturbing as it is treated, but if we are not able to tackle it maybe it is
possible to harm.
We all live in a society that installs
various values in men’s minds. Society is a gift as well as a curse for us. It
makes us noble, helps us succeeding, motivates us to achieve a milestone, and
also assists us to get a reputation, but in contrast, it demoralizes us during
the struggle daunts after failure, indicates people to go beyond us, and even
disheartens us.
Getting failure is not one’s fortune. The reason behind the failure has been identified by the succeeded, analyzed by the
motivators and written by the writers, but the list is not short. The more
common and most accepted uninteresting facts of failure, no one would like to
belong to this category, follow…
1. Caring
for the opinion of mates: - It is first of these uninteresting facts
that lead to beyond the success. If your mates whether praise or criticize you;
it is human nature to react against this vague opinion. Getting praise we are
trapped in the illusion of no need of reading, and
getting criticism we start thinking about it why they criticize us and
what wrong with them and with us. In both situations, we spend lots of time without
productive work that is not advantageous at any cost.
2. The burden of society: - It is an unwanted burden. We do work according to the wish
of the others, not ours. We start worrying about the need, happiness, and even
the pleasure of our friends and relatives that harm us and make us mentally
unstable.
3. Exaggeration
of pseudo personality: - During struggle, preparation, and effort
we try to make an image in front of our colleagues. Answering one or two
questions more and keeping good arguments in the so-called debate; we prefer
ourselves as a warrior, talented, and good debater. We craft our delusory image
in our mind that gives us short term pleasure without worth and long term harm
with pain.
4. Thinking
about the END, not the MEANS: - A normal tendency
of the human mind concentrates the post-success scenario. We think about the
end and feel pleasure probably at night sleeping. In very next day we wake up
and forget the dream but still sense the end. We never think about the means
and if we think so we can get the end otherwise it will be a big nightmare for
us.
5. Not
joining with the modern civilization: - We believe that once we
get the goal, we will do everything for us. We will wear branded shirt-pants,
will focus on body posture, will improve our style of eating, sleeping,
walking, etc., and caring our languages like speaking as well as writing HINDI
and ENGLISH well, but it is a big fault because all these kinds of stuff are
part of our personality development that shows the way towards success.
These are some uninteresting facts in
which no one would like to be familiar as mentioned above, but knowingly and
unknowingly many people experience these. One who went through above the facts,
one knows that these construct dilusion and kill the real potential of the
man.
We must think that without modernity
what our future will be. Modernity not only includes using mobile sets, the
internet, and other electronic gadgets, but also comprises of civilizational
changes like looking good posture, carved hair, well-mentioned clothing, and
most necessary mode of talking.
How the failure broadens the vision
We fail and rejected in society. We
fail and lose all friends, wealth, and health for some period, even time,
emotions, and most importantly existence. It is the time when we think deeply
about all our relations, mischief done by others, our mistakes, drawbacks, and
plan. We learn from our past mistakes, are careful to plan the future again,
and be focused on getting it.
This time we believe in our existence.
It is our broad vision that excludes all the drawbacks and includes all the
advantages which were left before. We get the milestone because we move from
the haunted shadow of idealism to prosperous realism. Our all believe are
broken and a new tradition of work culture starts growing.
