My Diary: Rejections shape life like potters do for pots

         Rejection opens a door of hand-on insight that holds several ways of learning. It finds a path to clash with destiny with a facing-up the wrath of unfortunate. It is a pre-stage going forward with embracing ideas of acceptance. 

Photo by R. Suresh Bhardwaj

Let’s go through the rejections

1. Rejection by friends - Man is, by nature, a social animal and wants to be socialised. For this, he makes group to maintain his personality, reputation and image. The group shapes itself as a bubble of comfort: comfort zone. It is a hurdle in growth that needs to be broken up so that men would scatter themselves like the seeds of flowers to blossom the world. A man feels that he sacrifices his time and money for friendship but he gets apparently nothing except exhaustion and mental harassment in many cases. At the point, rejection like alienation is necessary that makes a way to a man to spread his wings.
2. Rejection by Girlfriends - It is an important phase of life to be mature. It ought to be experienced without any question mark. It helps to improve emotional intelligence. Nowadays an appropriate emotional quotient is crucial factor to be succeed in any field. Emotion is invisible. It has no appearance, so it can’t be trained by outer training. It can be trained by going through emotional experiences. Rejection by girlfriends, love birds and crushes might be a way. Love triangles, relationships and patching up are the best means to manage emotionality. 
3. Rejection by competitive exams -Competitive exam teaches us to perform in pressure. It teaches to make a plan for a year and to execute it at a particular day. But, that particular day lessons a man to be mature more when we are not shortlisted. After rejection, our efforts, courage, labour and sacrifice have no meaning. We need to plan again and execute it with different attitude. And, we again fail. By doing these, we unwillingly practice a habit of plan after plan till the success. These all can be utilised for other purposes too.

        There are so many rejections. Rejection in interviews, rejection by publishers, rejection by companies and rejection by life are some frequent examples. I have chosen only three that work as pressure and heat. As heavy pressure and intense heat metamorphose coal into a diamond, rejections make a man perfect.😘 Let love the rejections!